Rabu, 20 Agustus 2008

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Minggu, 03 Februari 2008

Inter Religious Marriages

M. Husni Mubarok ( 031104114) /II D

Inter Religious Marriages

Interfaith marriage has become trend in the some countries. We can find it in some countries like in U.S.A, Singapore, Tibet, and also in Indonesia. It traditionally (especially in the Catholic Church) called mixed marriage, is marriage (either religious or civil) between partners professing different religions. Some religions prohibit interfaith marriage, and while others do allow it, most restrict it. Some Indonesian artists also do it like Jamal Mirdad- Lidya Kandau, Mayong Laksono-Nurul Arifin, Ari Sigit-Rica Callebut, Jeremy Thomas-Ina Indrayati, Frans Lingua-Amara, Henry Siahaan-Yuni Sara, and Ari Sihasale-Nia Zulkarnain.

               The Civil Registry Office's position on the matter is based on first verse of Marriage Law No.1/1974, which states that marriage is valid if conducted according to the religions and beliefs of the prospective bride and groom. Therefore, a marriage must first be authorized by religion before it can be registered with the Civil Registry Office. According to Presidential Decree No.12/1983, the Civil Registry Office is only authorized to register non-Muslim marriages. Consequently, many inter-religious couples are unable to formally register their marriages at the Civil Registry Office. Some couples attempt to sneak past this law by pretending to profess their partner's faith in order to legally register. Others are forced to maintain de-facto relationships or to marry overseas, such as in Singapore. 

Islam only allows a man to marry a non-Muslim if she is Christian (specifically Greek Orthodox) or Jewish. The wife need not adopt any Muslim laws, and the husband is not allowed to keep her from going to church or synagogue. The early jurists of the most prominent schools of Islamic jurisprudence ruled in fiqh law that the marriage of a Muslim man to a Christian or Jewish women is makruh (reprehensible) if they live in a non-Muslim country. The Caliph Umar (634–644) denied interfaith marriage for Muslim men during his command of the ummah.

Fiqh also forbids Muslim women from marrying non-Muslim men, although there is nothing in the Quran nor the Sunnah (sharia) that explicitly prohibits such unions. Some Muslim scholars (ahli kitab) go so far as to state that such a marriage is an act of apostasy, but with the growing number of such marriages, this position is being questioned. In some Muslim countries, if a non-Muslim woman is married to a non-Muslim, and she converts to Islam, the marriage is suspended until her husband converts to Islam. When he converts a new marriage is not needed.

Although fiqh forbids Muslim women's marriage with non-Muslim men, there are lots of Muslimah who have married men who follow other religions. These cases are mainly observed in Balkan peninsular and West of Turkey, West Europe, East Asia, and sometimes in Syria or Lebanon. They are also becoming more common in the West.

In conclusion, Inter Religious Marriages is forbidden because it is not recognized by the government in Indonesia and also for Moslems but according to Universal Declaration of Human Rights, we have to appreciate the people who love each other although they are different religion

 
http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Interreligious_marriage feb,4, 08, 09:50 

http://www.expat.or.id/info/interreligiousmarriages.html feb,4, 08, 09:50

POLYANDRY

POLYANDRY

http://www.umanitoba.ca/faculties/arts/anthropology/tutor/marriage/polyandry.html 23:44 3 FEB

http://www.shef.ac.uk/aps/mbiolsci/kate-hutchence/polyandry.html 00:03

http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Polyandry 00:20

http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Polyandry_in_Tibet 00:24

Polyandry is a form of polygamy in which one woman is married to several men. Polyandry has been traditionally thought of as a rare phenomenon, however recent research has shown this trend is widespread throughout the animal kingdom, with evidence of multiple mating by females in many groups. This trend is surprising because it appears to go against the basic principles of sexual selection.

The process of breeding has many costs including an increased risk of predation, energy loss, time lost that could have been spent feeding, and increased risk of harm from members of the same species. Taking all this into consideration, why would a female mate multiply?

There are several different ways this might be happening, and it is possible that a combination of these factors may be driving polyandry:

1. Genetic bet-hedging: females mate with many males to gain greater genetic diversity in their offspring, thereby hedging their bets against a changing environment.

2. Genetic improvement or Trade-up: females are relating with a good quality male in order to 'trade-up' on a previous mating with a low-quality male.

3. The good genes model: females mate multiply to gain access to 'good genes' for their offspring by trading up, or post-copulatory cues (this assumes that there in one best male for all females).

4. The genetic incompatibility model: females are mating multiply to gain access to the male that they are most genetically compatible with by trading-up, or postcopulatory cues (this assumes that there is no one best male for all females and that due to the genetic complexity of organisms each female has her own best mate).

Polyandry in Tibet was a traditional marriage practice that existed within a milieu whereby a woman could have several husbands; a father and his sons could share the same wife, and a mother and her daughters could share the same husband.

Islam and Judaism ban polyandry completely. In Islam the verse from the Quran that is typically used for a proof in this matter is Surah Nisa’ Chapter 4 verses 22 to 24, which gives the list of women with whom one cannot marry and it is further mentioned in Surah Nisa’ Chapter 4 verse 24. Nikah Ijtimah, a pre-Islamic tradition of polyandry, was forbidden by Islam.There is at least one reference to polyandry in the ancient Hindu epic, Mahabharata. Draupadi marries the five Pandava brothers. This ancient text remains largely neutral to the concept of polyandry, accepting this as her way of life.

In Indonesia, Polyandry is not recognizing because there is no verse in law (undang-undang). If we do it we can get “Undang-Undang No 1 Tahun 1974 yang mengatur tentang perceraian dan perzinahan”

Senin, 21 Januari 2008

RETELL ___M.HUSNI MUBAROK 031104114

want to retell about currency which is written by Melina.

A currency is a unit of exchange, facilitating the transfer of goods
and/or services. Currencies vary across countries and include the
dollar, euro, pound, and yen. The origin of currency is the creation
of a circulating medium of exchange based on a unit of account that
quickly becomes a store of value. Definition of currency based on
Dictionary.com Unabridged has several definitions. First, something
that is used as a medium of exchange money. Second, currency is
general acceptance; prevalence; vogue or a time or period during which
something is widely accepted
and circulated. Third, currency is the fact or quality of being widely
accepted and circulated from person to person and the last; it is
circulation, as of coin.
Currency is influence from people and culture for example Indonesian
currency. It is influence from Indonesia culture. The official
currency of Indonesia is Rupiah (Rp). The currency in the country is
issued and controlled by the Bank of Indonesia. The name Rupiah holds
its origin from the Indian monetary system and the basic of the Indian
unit, Rupee.
According to the summary above the currency has a value which has
function of exchange something. Each country has a currency which is
standardized as an unit of exchange.

Kamis, 17 Januari 2008

Have you seen American Pie 6 Movie? What's your opinion?

M. Husni Mubarok---031104114

Hallo guys.... in this opportunity, I wanna discuss about a film which
has a title American pie 6. May be all of you have seen this movie.
Really it's an interesting movie but I think the film do not have an
educate for us. Women and men can do anything as they want and there
is not a sensor for misbehaviors.

Yeah,,,I think the film like that is not good for us especially
children and I think American Pie is a "naked film" which destroys our
culture and religion.

Why the film like that easy to find? Yups... a robber who copies the
films make us easy to find because it sells cheaply. Because it has
happened, i think we must be careful to choose a film and keep our
sister or brother for choosing an educated films.

Minggu, 13 Januari 2008

Re: [BOGORCHICKENSOUP] CCU- New Year for rahayu puji

I think your experience is not bad although you stay in the place which far from crowd. I think we have to celebrate new year with reevaluate our selves. So we have to far from crowd. Why don't you do it say? I think that is an unforgotten moment if you do "muhasabah" or reevaluate. Next 2008, I invite you and all students in this group especially Mr. Cunong to join me for MUHASABAH to celebrate the becoming new year.

NEW YEAR--MUHAMMAD HUSNI MUBAROK (031104114)

What do you feel with becoming 2008? So, what will you do in 2008?
People around the world celebrate an event that happens when the end
of one year and the beginning of the next year. Cultures that measure
yearly calendars all have New Year celebrations. Hmmm, how about you?
Actually, people do party to celebrate New Year’s Eve. Celebrations
begin on the New Year Eve on December 31st. Hotels, restaurants, clubs
and pubs organize New Year Eve balls and parties. People sing, dance
and make merry. Fun events and contests are also organized to
entertain the crowd. As New Year falls at the peak winter time in many
countries bonfires are lit to keep the people warm. And just when the
clock strikes for midnight firecrackers are burst to welcome the
advent of New Year. People greet Happy New Year with a warm hug to
every one around them. With loved ones and friends at a distance
people exchange greetings through SMSs and phone calls. No wonder,
phone network see maximum traffic at this time.
Tradition of welcoming the New Year by organizing feasts and
celebrations has been carried forward since ancient times. Historians
believe that New Year tradition was started by ancient Babylonians
more than 4,000 years ago. Egyptians, Romans, Celts continued it and
now the present generation cherish this tradition by celebrating New
Year in the most extravagant manner. Most countries across the globe
celebrate New Year on January 1. This day officially became the first
day of the year in 46 BC when Julius Caesar established the Julian
calendar. However, many countries and communities follow different
calendars and celebrate their New Year in an entirely different time
of the year by following their own specific customs and traditions.
Given here is glimpse of New Year traditions as observed on January 1
in countries following Gregorian calendar.
Actually, New Year not only celebrates with travel or party but also
self evaluation. We have to think that we will be better in the next
year than in the past.
http://www.newyearfestival.com/new-year-traditions.html
http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/New_Year

CHRISTMAS MUHAMMAD HUSNI MUBAROK (031104114)

CHRISTMAS

MUHAMMAD HUSNI MUBAROK (031104114)

The Christians celebrate Christmas in December, 25. Christmas shows to
held birth of Jesus. Christmas festivities often combine the
commemoration of Jesus' birth with various cultural customs, many of
which have been influenced by earlier winter festivals. The story of
Christmas is based on the biblical accounts given in the Gospel of
Matthew, namely Matthew 1:18-Matthew 2:12 and the Gospel of Luke,
specifically Luke 1:26-Luke 2:40. According to these accounts, Jesus
was born to Mary, assisted by her husband Joseph, in the city of
Bethlehem. According to popular tradition, the birth took place in a
"stable", surrounded by farm animals, though neither the “stable” nor
the animals are mentioned in the Biblical accounts. However, a
"manger" is mentioned in Luke 2:7 where it states "She wrapped him in
cloths and placed him in a manger, because there was no room for them
in the inn." Shepherds from the fields surrounding Bethlehem were told
of the birth by an angel, and were the first to see the child.
Christians believe that the birth of Jesus fulfilled many prophecies
made hundreds of years before his birth.
People in Indonesia adopted the western culture. Christmas is a season
of giving and receiving presents. The exchanging of gifts is a
tradition of the holiday to symbolize the importance of giving to
others. They exchange a card and also a gift to celebrate of
Christmas. They also prepared something in their house like decorating
the Christmas’ tree and also decorating their home. I usually assist
my friend “Juni” when she held Christmas. I think it was enjoy because
she works in a church as “biarawati”. One Day before Christmas, She
and I start to decorate her house and also the tree. We always give a
food to the poor people.
I think when the Christmas gives a positive effect we have to respect
of it and I think Christmas being motivation us to be a good people.


http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Christmas

MUHASABAH (2008 REFLECTION, How about U?)------Muhammad HUSni Mubarok

Becoming 2008, people in the world celebrate it with firework, and
also sing a song, dancing and etc. Have you ever celebrate it with
MUHASABAH?? Far away from crowd,, dzikir to the god and anything to
make us progress in another day....

Ok, i have done it and I think that is the nice journey... Starting
from 03:20 from my city in Tangerang with the other friends it's about
10 people who joined it. We finished in the location (PAndeglang) in
05:30.

After that prepared for praying MAghrib, and continued praying
Maghribh and then read the Holy Qur'an. Discussing about the content
of it, then read the ibadah amaliyah which consisted of Muhammad do.
Then we did dzikir until 11:00 and ready to sleep. it's about 02:30
a.m. we woke up for muhasabah until Shubuh.

After praying Shubuh, we prepared to walk around the village and
set for the adventour journey like outbound and flying
fox and rafting. REally the unforgotten moment.... How about U??

Achilles---Muhammad Husni Mubarok 031104114

Planning Your Activity

People have many activities in this era. Sometimes we forget to draft
our schedule. Yeah,,, this content is not relate to the theme but we
can be a hero for ourselves because we can organize something that
help us to do anything. It's one of the way to get success. Reach your
dream.

Bilingualism Goal Muhammad Husni Mubarok 031104114

Language Quantity + Taqwa Credibility = Moslem Quality

Being a Moslem quality we ought to follow what Muhammad the prophet
do, and honor what Allah says in the Holy Qur’an. It is the meaning of
taqwa which is contained in syahadat. Isy kariman au mut syahidan....
It's the symbol for Moslem to hang onto the prinsip for get a victory
between in the world and heaven.
Learning about lingual, I remember about Moslem. Actually, Moslems
have a power diversity of language. In the fact, the Holy Qur’an is
printed by Arabic language. So that they usually use Arabic to read
the Holy Qur'an. Although it is not a Pidgin but Arabic is an
international mode for Moslems. The international language which as a
Pidgin is English. Should Arabic as a secondary international language
because Moslems communities are big.
Remember of god and the prophet and be a next Moslem generation....
Keep learning!

Word Meaning--Muhammad Husni Mubarok 031104114

Valentine's Day

People in Indonesia celebrate Valentine’s day looks like western
tradition. It is usually done by teenager. Valentine's Day on February
14 is the traditional day on which lovers to express their love for
each other, sending Valentine's cards, donating to charity or gifting
candy. It is very common to present flowers on Valentine's Day.
One legend contends that Valentine was a priest who served during the
third century in Rome. When Emperor Claudius II decided that single
men made better soldiers than those with wives and families, he
outlawed marriage for young men his crop of potential soldiers.
Valentine, realizing the injustice of the decree, defied Claudius and
continued to perform marriages for young lovers in secret. When
Valentine's actions were discovered, Claudius ordered that he be put
to death.
Other stories suggest that Valentine may have been killed for
attempting to help Christians escape harsh Roman prisons where they
were often beaten and tortured.
According to one legend, Valentine actually sent the first 'valentine'
greeting himself. While in prison, it is believed that Valentine fell
in love with a young girl -- who may have been his jailor's daughter
who visited him during his confinement. Before his death, it is
alleged that he wrote her a letter, which he signed 'From your
Valentine,' an expression that is still in use today. Although the
truth behind the Valentine legends is murky, the stories certainly
emphasize his appeal as a sympathetic, heroic, and, most importantly,
romantic figure. It's no surprise that by the Middle Ages, Valentine
was one of the most popular saints in England and France.
According to the history above, if we are celebrate valentine day, we
celebrate the death of Saint Valentine. So what must me do??? Others
can only follow... but we ought to have a prinsip.


en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Valentine's_Day 08-01-08/10:30
http://www.history.com/minisite.do?content_type=Minisite_Generic&content_type_id\
=882&display_order=1&sub_display_order=1&mini_id=1084

08-01-08/10:30

Minority Muhammad Husni Mubarok (031104114)

Badui People

Badui is an ethnic community which locates in Lebak, Banten. They
believe of animism religion. Badui life is still primitive. They do
not accept the traditional mode and style. In the night, they do not
turn on the lamp because they are usually live without the light or
electricity. Imagine, if you are stay without the light?
Most people argue that they are a primitive community. The clothes
which are dressed it so different than people as usual. Actually,
Badui people are creative to do something. They also have many
ceremonial. They didn’t ask something to people because they can take
care themselves. They farm a land for eat, and also sell their
creativity.
In the fact, Badui is a traditional ethnic which keeps Sunda
tradition. They also honour to the people had the government. It is
conveyed in Seba ceremonial which is presented to ”Bapak Gede”
(Panggilan Kepada Bupati Lebak) dan Camat Leuwidamar. So, we have to
save our culture ethnic.

Stereotype-- Muhammad Husni Mubarok 031104114

Women Can Do What Men Do

Emancipation is the women’s power. Long time ago, people thought that
women can’t do anything like men but now the argument like that must
be thrown away.
In this era, women show the power of us. We can see women not only
work in the office as secretary but also as manager. Beside that women
do the activity as too as men like ‘tukang becak’, driver, ojeg,
constructor, and anything. Actually, women have sex appeal invite the
consumer join them. Beside that women are organized people,
discipline, and little critical people. That’s why the agency or an
office needs them and exposes them to do something like men.
According to the statement above, Men have to be creative to do
something and ready face the emancipation era.

CULINARY---Muhammad HUsni Mubarok 031104114

Culinary is the art of cooking. The word "culinary" is defined as
something related to, or connected with, cooking or kitchens.
Indonesia is rich of culinary. Many kinds of culinary in Indonesia. We
can see the food in Sumatera, Jawa, Kalimantan, Bali is different each
other. There is something the identity of the food like Palembang with
pempek, Jawa with soto, Madura with sate etc. We can enjoy the food
and see the beautiful place in Indonesia.
A culinarian is commonly known as a cook or a chef. Culinary artists
are responsible for skillfully preparing meals that are as pleasing to
the palate as to the eye. They work primarily in restaurants, fast
food franchises, delicatessens, hospitals and other institutions and
corporations. Kitchen conditions vary depending on the type of
business, restaurant, nursing home etc. he culinary arts profession is
made up of people who work either directly or indirectly in the
preparation and service of food items in the public or private sector.
They work in a range of establishments including, but not limited to
hotels, full-service restaurants, private clubs, corporate dining,
institutional catering, caterers, and home meal replacement
(carry-out). With the increased demands of the consumers for
nutrition, quality, sophistication in all parts of the culinary
industry, today's culinary professional needs to be well trained and
prepared to meet the consumers' demands.
There are a variety of opportunities in the culinary arts profession.
Below is a non-exhaustive list of some opportunities available to
those interested in working as culinary professionals.
• Chef and Cooks - Work directly with the preparation of food for
service in various establishments including full-service restaurants,
catering facilities, institutional dining, corporate dining, and other
various venues.
• Dining Room Service'
• Food and Beverage Managers - Manage all food and beverage outlets in
hotels and other large establishments
• Food and Beverage Controllers - Purchase and source ingredients in
large hotels as well as manage the stores and stock control.
• Consultants and Design Specialists - Works with restaurant owners in
development of menus, layout and design of dining room and
establishing kitchen protocols.
• Salespeople - Introduces chefs and business owners to new products
and able to demonstrate the proper use of equipment. They may sell any
range of products needed in the industry from various food products to
equipment.
• Teachers - Train future culinary professionals with their experience
in the classroom.
• Food Writers and Food Critics - Establish a public contact with the
public on food trends, chefs and restaurants. Many write for
newspapers, magazines and some publish books. Notables in this field
include Julia Child, Craig Claiborne and James Beard.
• Food Stylists and Photographers - Work with magazines, books,
catalogs and promotional and advertising to make them visually appealing.
• Research and Development Kitchens - Develop new products for
commercial manufacturers, they can also be test kitchens for
publications or others can be kitchens for restaurant chains or
grocery chains.
http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Culinary_arts 21.53